Mindset & Resilience: The Dynamic Duo That You Need to Fuel Your Dreams!
Your BadAss Newsletter #3
You know that voice in your head that whispers, “You can’t do this”? Yeah, I’ve heard it too. It’s that same voice that tries to convince you that your dreams are too big, that starting your own business is a fantasy, and that achieving your goals is for “other” people. But here’s the truth: that voice is a liar. And the only thing standing between you and everything you’ve ever wanted is your mindset.
The Reality of Chasing Dreams
Chasing your dreams is not for the faint of heart. It’s messy, it’s brutal, and it’s often a lonely road. When I decided to start my own business, I had nothing but a busted laptop and a head full of ideas. I was scared out of my mind. But you know what? I was also tired of the nine-to-five grind, of living someone else’s version of success. So, I made a choice. I chose to believe in myself even when everything else around me screamed, “No way.”
And that’s the first step: choosing to believe in yourself. No one’s going to do it for you. Not your friends, not your family, and certainly not the world. This journey is yours alone, and it starts with the decision to back yourself, no matter what.
The Mindset Shift
Mindset isn’t just about positive thinking—it’s about a radical shift in how you see yourself and the world. It’s about taking those limiting beliefs and smashing them into a million pieces.
When I first started out, I was my own worst enemy. I doubted every move I made, every decision. I worried about what people would think, about failing publicly. But then I realized something: failure isn’t the opposite of success; it’s a part of it.
You have to be willing to fail. Not just once, but over and over again. And each time, you get back up, you learn, and you grow. That’s what having the right mindset is all about embracing the struggle because you know it’s leading you to where you’re meant to be.
Going After Your Goals
You know that big, scary goal you have? The one that makes your heart race just thinking about it?
You need to go after it like your life depends on it—because in a way, it does. When I first set out to build my business, I had no idea what I was doing. I was just a mom with a dream, trying to juggle kids, bills, and a million other things. But every time I wanted to quit, I reminded myself why I started.
I started because I wanted more for myself, for my family. I wanted to prove that it was possible, not just for me, but for anyone who dared to dream. And that’s the thing about goals—they’re not just about achieving something; they’re about becoming someone. Someone who refuses to settle, who fights for what they believe in, who shows up every day, no matter how hard it gets.
Staying Authentic
Here’s the thing about pursuing your dreams—it’s easy to lose yourself in the process. The world will try to tell you who you should be, how you should act, what you should want. But the key to real success is staying true to yourself. Be raw, be real, be you.
When I started my business, I tried to fit into a mold that wasn’t me. I watered down my voice, played it safe, and guess what? It sucked. It wasn’t until I embraced my true, badass self that things started to click. People don’t connect with perfection; they connect with authenticity. So, show up as you are—flaws, quirks, and all. That’s your superpower.
The Bottom Line
The right mindset isn’t something you’re born with; it’s something you build, brick by brick, day by day. It’s about choosing to show up, even when it’s hard. It’s about believing in yourself, even when no one else does. And it’s about staying true to who you are, no matter how much the world tries to change you.
So, if you’ve got a dream, a goal, a business idea that sets your soul on fire—go after it with everything you’ve got. Don’t wait for the perfect moment, because it doesn’t exist. The time is now. And with the right mindset, there’s nothing you can’t achieve.
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The Power Duo: Resilience and Mindset
If mindset is the engine that drives you toward your dreams, then resilience is the fuel that keeps you going when the road gets rough. And trust me, the road will get rough. There will be days when you question everything, when you wonder if you’re cut out for this, when giving up seems easier than pushing forward. But here’s the truth: resilience isn’t just about surviving the storm—it’s about thriving in it.
The Grit Behind the Glory
Resilience is that gritty, unshakable determination that says, “I’m not done yet.” It’s what keeps you going when the world tells you to quit, when failure knocks you down, and when success feels like a distant dream. But resilience isn’t something you’re born with; it’s something you build, just like your mindset.
When I started out, I faced rejection after rejection. I can’t count how many doors were slammed in my face, how many times I heard “no” when all I wanted was a “yes.” But every “no” taught me something—it made me tougher, smarter, and more determined. That’s the beauty of resilience: it doesn’t just help you bounce back; it makes you stronger with each setback.
The Mindset of Resilience
Here’s the thing about resilience and mindset—they’re two sides of the same coin. You need the right mindset to believe you can achieve your goals, but you need resilience to keep going when things don’t go as planned. It’s easy to have a positive mindset when everything is going well, but true resilience shows up when life hits hard.
When I was building my business, there were times when I was so broke I couldn’t even afford to (pay attention, just kidding) keep the lights on. I remember sitting in the dark, questioning everything. But even in those moments, I refused to let my circumstances define me. I chose to see every challenge as an opportunity, every failure as a lesson. That’s the mindset of resilience—seeing the possibilities even when the odds are stacked against you.
Bouncing Back and Pushing Forward
Resilience isn’t just about bouncing back; it’s about bouncing forward. It’s about using every setback as a steppingstone to something greater. When things go wrong—and they will—you have two choices: you can let it defeat you, or you can let it drive you.
For me, resilience meant turning every obstacle into an opportunity. When I couldn’t find clients, I hustled harder. When my ideas didn’t work, I pivoted. When I failed, I learned. And each time, I came back stronger, more focused, more determined. That’s the power of combining mindset with resilience—it’s the ability to keep moving forward, no matter what.
Cultivating Resilience
Building resilience isn’t easy, but it’s essential. It starts with a decision—a decision to never give up, no matter how tough things get. It’s about embracing discomfort, pushing through pain, and finding strength in the struggle. And most importantly, it’s about believing in yourself even when no one else does.
When you combine a strong mindset with unshakable resilience, you become unstoppable. You start to see challenges as opportunities, failures as lessons, and setbacks as setups for a comeback. You realize that every time life knocks you down, you have the power to get back up—stronger, wiser, and more determined than ever.
The Bottom Line
Resilience and mindset are the ultimate power duo. Together, they give you the strength to pursue your dreams, the courage to start your own business, and the determination to achieve your goals. They’re what keep you going when the road gets tough, when the world says “no,” and when everything inside you wants to quit.
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Liana K.
Thank you so much Charlotte, your dad is a wise man. I'm glad you enjoyed reading this issue.
Excellent essay Liane, I’ve said this often in my Substack writings, “follow your dreams and you’ll never work a day in your life” My Dad My Dad also wouldn’t listen to the word “can’t.” It my passion for what I loved to do in life which motivated me. Bless you. ✨💖🤗